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Written by Sandis Jackson
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Tuesday, 03 April 2007 |
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Word Count: 568 Are you for Length or Girth?
There are few men out there who have not at least once in their lifetime ever
taken out a ruler and measured their male member. A quick peek through history
will tell you, poets, philosophers, writers and artists alike have all tried to
define the average and above average measure for manhood. Erotic art is full of
examples of exaggerated manhood, because it is generally believed that the penis
mirrors a guy's sexual power and vigor. It's not difficult to see why penis enlargement is
still thought to be better even in this so-called new millennium.
So going back to the age-old question; "does size really matter?" Both men and
women alike are desperate to know what really gives. Men are equally obsessed,
if not more so, with their penis size as women are with their breast size. In
fact a lot of them are keen on finding out ways to make their member larger.
That explains why the penis enlargement industry is booming by leaps and bounds,
offering everything from cream, pills, traction devices, and even surgery. The
media and the fanatical stories of 'well-endowed' men have probably contributed
to the already bizarre subject of penis size.
Studies show that the average penis size is not the 12" poles being bandied
about in porn. Actually average is between 5.5 to 6.4 inches in erect length and
4.7 to 5.2 inches in girth. Now there's one myth that needs to be put to rest:
penis size is completely unrelated to height or hand, feet, and nose size simply
because there is no bone in the penis.
You probably heard it from countless women that "it's not the size that matters
but how you use it." Though the length of the penis has not much to do with
sexual pleasure, girth on the other hand may indeed matter in the long run. As
what some reproductive therapists explain countless times, it has something to
do with stimulating our G-spot which is supposed to be located about two inches
inside the upper wall of the vagina.
Anyway, personal preference is still based on the individual woman, some may
like big while others small. When we ask a woman what does she prefer over penis
length and penis girth, Courtney (not her real name), said that she likes her
partner to have "meatier" penis, meaning fuller penis. She said that the nerves
in her vaginal walls (located near the entrance of the vagina and the anus) are
better stimulated during intercourse. Thus, girth might be significant here
given that a meatier penis can stretch out the vaginal or anal walls that
stimulate the nerves. This creates friction and sensation that most women crave
during intercourse. She further added that even though the penis is the vital
equipment in love making, it's also the combination of skill, passion and
romance that heightens the sensation.
To say that men who are small are no good in the sack is a hasty generalization
and just short of discriminating. In general, women are more concern about the
man's entire package, rather than just the one between their thighs. Women also
seek passion, intimacy and emotional connection. Try to show her your love by
giving her flowers, a sensual massage, or a bath with rose petals.
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