Oh Goody it’s Some “Bad Stuff”
Layne Schmidt, RubyShuze.com

Focusing on the unwanted stuff is a pretty normal response in our society. We have been well trained to observe what is, focus on what is, talk about what is and even stew on what is. Let’s face it; telling a funny anecdote about the lousy traffic; the mate who never cleans up, the boss or the co-worker that “doesn’t have a clue”; gets us lots of attention.

So what do you do if you’d like things to be different? Let’s say for instance that you want a better relationship, you want the neighborhood dog to stop barking, you want to manage not to spill coffee or orange juice on your blouse in the morning, you want your boss to appreciate your efforts or you want your mom to quit nagging you.

Well, it might be hard to hear but Step 1 is; Stop Talking About It! Stop spending your energy focusing on things you don’t want. Stop trying to get the laugh or the sympathy. And Step 2 is; Flip the Unwanted Experience Around and make lists of what you do want instead. ie: the unhealthy relationship turns into – I want a healthy relationship, the daily glob of toothpaste on your shirt could become I want to be relaxed in the morning so I can be peaceful as I get ready, the aching back as you get out of bed could become, I want to be aware of what I can incorporate into my day so my back begins to get stronger. And as often as you can, practice focusing on what you want and where you want to go.

Having unwanted stuff in your life is a wonderful thing because if you’re willing to look at it for a second or two it will tell you plainly what you do want. When you focus more on what you do want and less on what you don’t want; what you do want has to come to you. It’s a universal law and this is a really easy and practical way to apply it.

If you want to get better at focusing on what you DO want, www.RubyShuze.com has some information that can help.

Layne Schmidt is the creator of www.RubyShuze.com an on-line course for individuals interested in creating a better life for themselves and the ones they love. Course work covers Self Esteem, Love, Health and Financial Security. Students can download a Self Study Guide and learn at their own pace or have their lessons come in the form of daily emails. All course work is practical and simple but the discoveries will be profound. Students can take their journey as deep as they wish as the site offers all kinds of additional resources. The course is 100% Guaranteed and RubyShuze offers a Free Monthly Newsletter. It’s absolutely worth checking out!